Protect Toddlers By Reading Them Books On Animal Communication

By John Kennedy


Is there anyone who really takes the pet whisperer shows as a serious dialogue worthy of making sweeping changes in the way one looks at or speaks to a pet. Certainly, building cat trees to climb or doors for them to not pester us about being in our out does make sense, and we accommodate our furry friends in these ways because we like them to be happy. However, books on animal communication, written by veterinarians who have studied the subject, seems more logical than bringing in a telepathic guru.

How many of us can actually afford to have one of these quasi-psychic pet interpreters come to our unkempt palace of second-hand furniture to teach us that we should be walked all over by the family member who has the fewest responsibilities. Understanding a little bit about body language and basic sounds that a creature makes can be much more effective. Besides, it is probably quicker to learn than trying to read the mind of a toy poodle who probably had siblings for parents.

The intent here is not to claim that animals cannot express complex thoughts and emotions. In fact, not every cat person seems to realize that the slow squinting blink that their pet gives them with both eyes, making eye contact with them, is an expression of love. What makes this particular expression even more special is that it comes without the usual submissive pose that cats often use to show affection towards their human servant.

Cats also reach out and bite as a show of intimacy, albeit a show of dominance as well. Humans automatically become combative with their cats when they do this, but the animal does not generally mean actual harm. If anyone was watching, they noticed that mating cats bite each other with purpose and intent, which certainly explains the screaming.

Our canine friends can sometimes be taught to mouth human sounds similar to an I love you, or a hello. Dogs will make these attempts at mimicking human speech for no other reason than to please with the hope of getting five minutes of our undivided attention. Seriously, dogs literally exist to please their humans, so granting them those few moments for any reason or no reason at all would probably prevent any possibility of doggy depression.

Something as simple as a For Dummies type book can teach a family more about their pet in half an hour than seven hours of a pet whisperer marathon. Learning the noises and cues that our furry brethren use to communicate with one-another can help us to understand our pets. The truth is, we actually use some of the same grunts, growls, and mumbling that many members of the so-called animal kingdom use.

A dog may have one sound for rough play, and a similar yet different tone when he or she is warning a child that they have pulled their ears one time too many. A cat may howl while mating, but they have a different howl that indicates the female is ready to mate. As any cat owner knows, they have yet another ear-shattering sound to indicate that it wants in or out, or in then out, then in again, but maybe out, oh meow.

Making pet noises as a bedtime game is an excellent way to teach them what growls and howls really mean. Not only can it help to protect both child and pet from each other, but it can also stir the first feelings of empathy and concern for others in the child. It might be the first opportunity a parent gets to show their children how what they do impacts others around them, and how they can be impacted as well.




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