How To Handle Bullying In Child's Life

By Michelle Hussy


It is clear that, from studies that have done and news reports that have ran, that bullying is much more damaging to children than we ever thought. It is every parent's hope that their children will not experience bullying while growing up, even so this is not realistic as we all know. You should learn how to talk to your kids, look for signs of bullying, and help them as much as you can along the way.

It's a good idea to talk to your kids about bullying whether it's happening to them or not. This talk is a good thing to do, despite the fact that it may cause them some apprehension while doing it. The first strategy you can discuss is how they can avoid bullies, which may help them stay safe while they are at school. Avoidance is very easy as long as your children know where bullies will be at so that they can avoid them and not have a confrontation. Other strategies involve being close to adults that can help, and walking around where they will be safe. The bottom line is to make your children aware of the possibility that they may meet a bully although they should not be afraid of this possibility every day.

You should also know that bullying comes in many forms, not just physical violence. Bullying, in fact, can be more detrimental to a child using verbal abuse such as teasing and making the children feel inadequate or worthless.

Kids are not always so forthcoming when it comes to discussing bullying with their parents. The bully may have told them to stay silent, or they might feel ashamed. These are why you need to keep an eye out that something is wrong with looking for warning signs. If your child does not want to go to school because of a physical illness. And it is an illness like a stomachache or a headache which is hard to verify, and then they may be attempting to avoid school for some other reason.

Parents must always do the best to watch out for the kids, which includes looking for signs of bullying in their lives. Cell phone activity and Internet surfing are things you should pay close attention to if you are concerned about whether or not your child is experiencing bullying. You can usually tell if your child is upset about something, so just be patient and encourage them to tell you what's wrong so you can help them find a way to deal with it.




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